To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little.
To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.
⇒彼と幸せに暮したいのなら、彼を深く理解し、少しだけ愛すこと。
彼女と幸せに暮したいなら、彼女を深く愛し、彼女のことをわかろうとしないこと。
By Helen Rowland